OK....here is what I have so far....nothing is in stone but let me know if this appears OK...
I think the consensus has us going on a 5-day cruise to the Carribean, probably flying Southwest to Ft Lauderdale and driving to the site.
We are still pending information on Ashton's trip to New York, but I think we are talking in the direction of March 14 - 19 or so.
Mom and I would be able to pay for the cruise for everyone if we can get it around 250-300. That would leave you the cost of getting there. (Mom and I have 2 free SW trips, which would allow us to do this.)
Does that sound right?